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Loving To Love


Coaching that sees you and everything around you:

the systems, your history, your community. 

Loving To Love
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Loving To Love is a decolonial and liberation-oriented coaching and consulting practice. I work with you holistically: not looking at you in isolation, but within the systems, culture, and relationships that you engage with. This is a safe, affirming space, especially for those whose identities and experiences aren't always recognised. Here, you are welcome in your fullness, and supported to move from awareness into integration, agency, and a more bold way of being.

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Who is Tula Bischof?

My name is Tula Bischof, I am the founder of Loving To Love and a KCPB-registered and licensed psychologist in Nairobi, Kenya.

 

My coaching work has held individuals across the globe as they step into attuned, loving, and bold ways of being.

"From the very beginning, her presence brought a sense of trust, calm, and grounded wisdom that's hard to put into words. She has a rare gift for truly seeing people, not just where they are but who they are capable of becoming"​

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~ Banzy Nyaga

Kenyan Psychologist

Psychology-Based Coaching

This work may be for you if:​​​​​

  • You're feeling stuck in repeating emotional or relationship patterns and you're looking for support in implementing the change you want to embody

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  • You care about systems change and are looking to explore yourself beyond isolated personal development. You want your work to translate in your relationships with others and the world.​​​

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To learn more about coaching click here...

Workplace Wellbeing Kenya
  • This offering is for small to medium organizations in Kenya that are seeking to implement regenerative approaches to workplace wellbeing, team communication & cross-cultural or intergenerational dynamics with greater awareness and care.

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  • You can also connect here if you are planning a project in Kenya in collaboration with a local organization and are seeking an ethical, context-sensitive psychological perspective to guide how you conduct your work and relationships on the ground.​​​​​

Organisational Consultancy

Project Management Kenya

Speaking Engagements & Panels 

I am open to speaking engagements and panel contributions on topics related to psychology, decoloniality, and broader social questions particularly within Kenyan and East African contexts. I bring a critical, relational, and systems-aware lens to conversations around wellbeing, identity, and collective change, and welcomes invitations to contribute to dialogues that seek depth, nuance, and transformation.

Tula Bischof Psychologist

WHAT PEOPLE SAY:

 

"It immediately felt warm, welcoming, and like a safe space.”

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“I’ve changed the way I see myself and relate to myself.”​​​

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“The Decolonial theme felt refreshing."

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"I feel seen and heard in a way that I haven’t experienced before."

What is a Discovery Call?

This 45-minute call is a space to get to know each other. You'll get to explore my approach and coaching programs. It’s a no-obligation conversation to share your goals, struggles, and needs, and see if coaching is the right next step for you.

What is Loving To Love?

Loving To Love is a space for those who feel called to explore love as both a practice and a way of being; Those who sense that love is not just a feeling, but an act of radical ownership, responsibility, and integration. Here, we treat love as something that is not private. It is inherently relational. It dares to be seen. It reaches across divisions and dissolves the privileges of separation. It asks us to tend to the whole system, not just patch its leakages.

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Through Decolonial and Liberation-oriented psychology-based coaching, consulting, and interactive workshops, Loving To Love creates spaces for dialogue, self-inquiry, and decolonial reflection, where we can question, unlearn, and reimagine what alignment and wholeness mean.

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