Loving To Love is a decolonial and liberation-oriented coaching and consulting practice, helping individuals increase & embody self-relational-systemic awareness, supporting them to care for themselves and move with agency.
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This work is for anyone who wants a genuinely holistic and politicised approach that does not look at the self in isolation, but acknowledges systemic issues and the broader context in which we strive to live fully. Coaching is designed for individuals who are searching for integration work, embodied reflection, and guided practice.
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Loving To Love is a space that is safe, affirming, and welcoming; especially for people whose identities or experiences aren’t always recognised or supported. There is room for you in your fullness; for your relationship with yourself, with others, and the ways you show up in the world, helping you engage with all of these parts of yourself with care, boldness, and agency.
My name is Tula Bischof, I am the founder of Loving To Love and a KCPB-registered and licensed psychologist in Nairobi, Kenya.
My coaching work has held individuals across the globe as they step into attuned, loving, and bold ways of being.
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(Western) Psychology is not neutral
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We are all agents of change
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No-one is broken; no-one needs "fixing"
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Coaching doesn't "solve problems", it equips us with the skills and resources to navigate them with care.
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We don’t believe in "controlling" emotions.
​We believe in befriending them.
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Love is a force that awakens, transforms, and connects us to ourselves and others.
Psychology-Based Coaching
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Schedule a FREE discovery call:
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This is a space to show up as you are. A chance to connect, get to know each other, and explore the pathways available to work together.
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After the call you'll receive a personalised email response with potential next steps based on the conversation...
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This offering is for small to medium organizations in Kenya that are seeking to implement regenerative approaches to workplace wellbeing, team communication & cross-cultural or intergenerational dynamics with greater awareness and care.
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You can also connect here if you are planning a project in Kenya in collaboration with a local organization and are seeking an ethical, context-sensitive psychological perspective to guide how you conduct your work and relationships on the ground.​​​​​
Organisational Consultancy
Speaking Engagements & Panels
I am open to speaking engagements and panel contributions on topics related to psychology, decoloniality, and broader social questions particularly within Kenyan and East African contexts. I bring a critical, relational, and systems-aware lens to conversations around wellbeing, identity, and collective change, and welcomes invitations to contribute to dialogues that seek depth, nuance, and transformation.
WHAT PEOPLE SAY:
"It immediately felt warm, welcoming, and like a safe space.”
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“I’ve changed the way I see myself and relate to myself.”​​​
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“The Decolonial theme felt empowering."
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"I feel seen and heard in a way that I haven’t experienced before."
What is a Discovery Call?
This 45-minute call is a space to get to know each other. You'll get to explore my approach and coaching programs. It’s a no-obligation conversation to share your goals, struggles, and needs, and see if coaching is the right next step for you.