Loving To Love is a decolonial and liberation-oriented coaching and consulting practice. We help individuals increase & embody self-relational-systemic awareness, supporting them to care for themselves and move with agency.
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Our work is for anyone who wants a genuinely holistic and politicised approach that does not look at the self in isolation, but acknowledges systemic issues and the broader context in which we strive to live fully. Coaching is designed for individuals who are searching for integration work, embodied reflection, and guided practice.
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We work with clients around the world, while being based in Kenya. Our space is safe, affirming, and welcoming, especially for people whose identities or experiences aren’t always recognized or supported. At Loving To Love, we hold space for you fully; for your relationship with yourself, with others, and the ways you show up in the world, helping you engage with all of these parts of yourself with care, boldness, and agency.
She is the founder of Loving To Love and a KCPB-registered and licensed psychologist in Nairobi, Kenya.
Her coaching work has held individuals across the globe as they step into attuned, loving, and bold ways of being. She is also the creator of the Emotional Companionship Framework; a decolonised and liberated lens on emotional connection and regulation.
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(Western) Psychology is not neutral
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We are all agents of change
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No-one is broken; no-one needs "fixing"
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Coaching doesn't "solve problems", it equips us with the skills and resources to navigate them with care.
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We don’t believe in "controlling" emotions.
​We believe in befriending them.
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Love is a force that awakens, transforms, and connects us to ourselves and others.
Decolonial & Liberatory Coaching
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Schedule a FREE discovery call:
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This call is a space to meet Tula Bischof, feel into her approach, & explore the pathways available to work together.
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After the call you'll receive a personalised email response with potential next steps based on the conversation...
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This service is designed for small to medium organizations in Kenya that are seeking to implement sustainable approaches to workplace wellbeing, strengthen team communication, and navigate cross-cultural or intergenerational dynamics with greater awareness and care.
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You can also connect here if you are planning a project in Kenya in collaboration with a local organization and are seeking an ethical, context-sensitive psychological perspective to guide how you conduct your work and relationships on the ground.​​​​​
Organisational Consultancy
Speaking Engagements & Panels
Tula is open to speaking engagements and panel contributions on topics related to psychology, decoloniality, and broader social questions particularly within Kenyan and East African contexts. She brings a critical, relational, and systems-aware lens to conversations around wellbeing, identity, and collective change, and welcomes invitations to contribute to dialogues that seek depth, nuance, and transformation.
“Working with you as my coach has been a structured, hands-on, and deeply reflective experience. You didn’t just guide me, you challenged me, gave me practical tools, and created a space where I could truly grow. Whether it was public speaking, balance, or even how I process my emotions, everything we worked on felt intentional and impactful. I’ve come out of these sessions more self-aware, more confident, and with a clearer understanding of myself"
~ Coaching Client, Kenya, 2024
Book a FREE Discovery call
It's time to Step Into Your FULLNESS!
I invite you to come AS YOU ARE. The strong you, the confused you, the ambitious you, the funny you, the messy you, the caring you, absolutely ALL of you is welcome. This is a NO OBLIGATION chance to connect, reflect, and see how we can work together to create meaningful change.​
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During this call we will:
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Explore your unique experiences and challenges
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Get clear on your goals for personal growth
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Envision and identify next steps
